Arguments between man and woman appear and knowing how to get pass them is a real skill. Unfortunately, disagreements often lead to fights between partners. If you are one of the couples that just can’t accept they are wrong or right the following 5 tips will help you find out how solve issues with your partner, even when you’re the one to blame.
1. BEFORE SAYING SOMETHING COUNT TO 10
When you hear something that you disapprove or something that you want to object to, inhale and count to 10. Ask yourself if the words your partner said are worth fighting or not.
2. THINK OF A SIGNAL FOR END OF THE FIGHT
When your disagreement is about to intensify into something bigger, it’s important to stop in time by utilizing a sign for the end of the fight.
3. IF YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD, BACK OFF
We all have days in which we may not be in the best of moods. If you are having a bad day, take a step back and avoid from getting into any uncomfortable conversations with your partner.
4. HUGS HIM/HER
Usually, when you’re fighting with your partner, you don’t think of hugging, kissing him. Nevertheless, a hug will remind you how much you actually love this person.
5. HUMOR IS IMPORTANT
To lessen up the tension and get off the angry face from your partner’s face, say a joke that you once laughed together. Don’t be rude or sarcastic toward your partner. A simple innocent gesture or a funny word can be the one thing you needed.
6. REMEMBER YOUR RELEVANT ARGUMENTS
A fight takes two. So, deep breaths and count to ten. Remember the reason for the fight and find the best way to express them without hurting your partner’s feeling. Use ‘I’ statements, not ‘you’ statements.
7. PLEASURE IS EVERYTHING
In fact, intimacy involves both emotional and physical
closeness and openness. But we wind up confusing the two and end up
feeling betrayed or used when, as often happens, we fail to satisfy our
need for closeness in sex.